BY EMMANUEL MWITA (HSC), MILLICENT MWITA
As schools and learners in Kenya continue with the school holidays, it is pain and gloom for some of the students. The holidays season exposes children to various risks including, physical, sexual and emotional violence, unsafe environments, lack of supervision. Shockingly, many reported cases of abuse involve individuals well known to the survivor such as parents, neighbors, relatives and friends.
The school calendar and activities are envisioned to ensure that students are protected from all forms of abuse. This has limited the vulnerability of students to violence while in school compared to when they are at home. The various situations that expose children to vulnerability have been
attributed to parenting issues as most parents are immersed in their daily activities and little time to follow up on their children. For this reason, it is important that parents are extensively engaged to understand and also take action in providing a safe environment at home.
The consequences of poor parenting extend beyond emotional and physical health to academic performance and social relationships. Children may resort to risky behaviors including substance abuse and unsafe sexual practices as coping mechanisms for attention and this has led to cases of
sexual violence, teenage pregnancies, and even suicide. Academic struggles often ensue due to inconsistent routines and limited access to educational resources. Insecure attachment styles, caused by a lack of trust and stability in childhood can haunt individuals throughout their lives, affecting their
ability to form healthy relationships. Tragically this cycle of negative effects can perpetuate across generations unless it is addressed.
Poor parenting contributes to health challenges in children, such as poor nutrition, lack of hygiene, and neglect of medical services and information. There is also little time for candid conversations between children and parents. Children who do not receive adequate guidance and support from parents may have difficulty handling social situations and forming healthy relationships with peers.
To address these pressing issues, an intentional approach that loops government, non-state actors, communities, and parents. Sensitization and empowerment programs should prioritize the promotion of positive parenting practices. Community engagements, role modeling, and policy
frameworks are essential components in tackling this issue.
Parents can gain valuable insights into child development, communication skills, and non-violent discipline techniques by including positive parenting skills and techniques. Learning from experienced professionals and sharing experiences with other parents also fosters a supportive
environment conducive to children’s safety and flourishing at home.
Emmanuel and Millicent are NAYA Youth Advocates
