By Tamia Nuna

The recent rise in femicide cases in Kenya is alarming. In the past three months alone, 97 cases have been reported, and earlier this year, over 14 femicides occurred in January. Yet, what worsens the issue is the persistent gender war that erupts on social media whenever such tragedies come to light.

Kenya is deeply rooted in a patriarchal system which grants men dominance in many aspects of life including economics, politics and culture, whereas women are considered subordinates.

This ideology suppresses women, consequently encouraging victim blaming whenever femicide occurs.

Misogynistic attitudes also become apparent in arguments that femicides should simply be categorized as crime, ignoring its specificity as the deliberate killing of women and girls because of their gender. These beliefs not only negate the issue but also create a dual battle for feminists, who must fight for justice while confronting deeply entrenched misogyny.

Patriarchy reinforces sexist attitudes and beliefs, which in turn, encourages some men to resort to violence and abuse. Social media platforms have unfortunately become breeding grounds for these ideologies.

It is not uncommon to find degrading comments or jokes on women’s bodies as well as regressive ideologies on womanhood, especially after public outcries over femicide. Such comments often shift blame onto women while excusing or overlooking the actions of aggressors.

While the government has promised to bring perpetrators to justice, systemic change requires more than legal action. Each of us must introspect and confront the misogynistic beliefs we may hold. Unlearning misogyny involves actively challenging harmful stereotypes, educating ourselves and others about gender equality, and promoting respect for women both online and offline.

Femicide is not just a women’s issue; it is a societal issue that demands our concerted action. For us to have a safer, more equitable society, we need to address the roots of misogyny and patriarchy, and unlearn these ideologies.

Tamia Nuna is a Youth Advocate at NAYA Kenya